LOVE DELIBERATELY

02.16.2025

Sexual Desire and Hormones: Why Motivation Often Matters More

All Posts, Love, Sex and Gender

Passion isn’t just about what your body produces—it’s about what your mind pursues. Introduction Many people believe their fluctuating libido can be blamed solely on “low hormones.” They’ll say: “I have low hormones, so I can’t feel desire,” or “My hormones are on zero, that’s why I don’t want sex.” However, Sexual Desire and Hormones […]

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• Tantra

02.16.2025

How to Offer Help Without Overstepping Boundaries: Your Guide to Effective Advice

All Posts, Coaching and Self-mastery

True support isn’t about leading the way—it’s about shining a light so others can find their own path. Introduction Have you ever tried to offer “help” to someone—maybe a friend, a family member, or even a stranger online—only to be met with annoyance, defensiveness, or even outright hostility? If so, you’ve already experienced the complicated […]

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02.14.2025

From My Heart to Yours: A Valentine’s Day Wish for True, Enduring Love

All Posts, Love Letters

From My Heart to Yours: A Valentine’s Day Wish for True, Enduring Love This Valentine’s, Treat Yourself: 50% off the Love Audit & Initial Orientation (see more details below) February 14th, 2025 Dear Romantic Realists (and Dreamers Alike), Valentine’s Day is upon us yet again—overflowing with red roses, dainty chocolates, and polished love stories gracing […]

• Illusions
• Love Letter

02.14.2025

Heartbreak: Lessons Learned After a Breakup

All Posts, Coaching and Self-mastery, Relationship and Communication

Sometimes, you need to break to truly become whole. Introduction: When Love Shatters Heartbreak can feel like the ground has vanished beneath you—especially if you invested years into a relationship that crumbles. Grief, anger, and self-doubt often swirl in the aftermath. Yet it’s precisely in these shattered pieces that many people unearth insights that reshape […]

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02.13.2025

Love Expiration Date: Myth or Reality?

All Posts, Love, Sex and Gender

Infatuation burns bright, but real love smolders steadily and warms you for a lifetime. Introduction: The Myth of Eternal Passion We often hear love described as a never-ending flame of passion, but in reality, the intense euphoria of new love usually settles over time. That doesn’t mean the relationship is doomed. Instead, it’s a natural […]

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02.13.2025

lllusions in Relationships: Overcoming Destructive Beliefs

Coaching and Self-mastery, Lifestyle and Personal

We see the world through the lens of our psyche, and illusions often color our view—especially in love. Introduction: Life Through Illusion Glasses Have you ever noticed how the same event can feel tragic one day and totally inconsequential the next? Human perception isn’t fixed; it ebbs and flows, influenced by our emotions, our past […]

• Illusions

02.13.2025

Online Dating Sites: Debunking the Myths

All Posts, Matchmaking and Dating

Pursuing love deliberately is not desperation but a conscious choice to find and nurture a genuine connection. Introduction: The (Mis)Belief in “Destiny” For many people yearning for meaningful connections, “waiting for destiny” can be an excuse for inaction. The assumption is that if love is truly meant to be, it will appear spontaneously—no real effort […]

02.12.2025

Ayn Rand on Love, Sex, and Self-Respect: Key Takeaways from The Virtue of Selfishness

All Posts, Love, Sex and Gender

Introduction Ayn Rand (1905–1982) remains a polarizing yet undeniably influential thinker, known for her philosophy of Objectivism and bestselling novels such as Atlas Shrugged and The Fountainhead. However, her work The Virtue of Selfishness also offers a bold take on love, relationships, and sexuality—revealing how self-respect and admiration can profoundly shape our romantic lives. In […]

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