Confidential Database Membership

Sophisticated Matchmaking is NOT a dating agency. We take pride in our database of most desirable and attractive commitment minded men and women, who live in and around the greater Seattle area (mostly but not only).


Our database of possible matches is extensive, unique and is expanded daily. It is made up of people with whom we have come in contact with over a number of years. Our clients tend to constantly refer to us their friends, relatives and co-workers.

We invest time and money in our exclusive search. We search for high-caliber women and men in places where this particular type of person usually frequents. We are involved with organizations and events in Washington that appeal to a more sophisticated crowd – we attend all the latest cultural events, golf tournaments, galas, openings, upscale clubs, and restaurants. We also search for exquisite women and high caliber men through our personal network of connections, publications in media and the web, advertising campaigns in sport and social clubs, spas, private parties, the most prestigious and exclusive fundraising events. We constantly employ the use of our network connections with multiple businesses and social organizations and groups. We include newly qualified prospects to our exclusive database daily. We will only introduce you to carefully selected and high-caliber matches who will meet your personal requirements and taste.


Have you tried online dating, going to blind dates, wasting time and money in the bars, maybe even speed dating? And you are still single? Do you find yourself to be too meticulous and very selective? Well, you don’t have to compromise in your search for a perfect partner and to settle for less than you deserve. If you feel you are ready for committed relationships and would like to find your second half and to fall in love but are not ready to pay a fee to become a client – joining our database might be a best option for you.


If you found us on-line or met me in person and I referred you to our website and you would like to join our database, all you have to do to become a free database member is to register online and fill the questionnaire.

*All of your information is confidential and might be viewed only by SM matchmakers, staff and active and potential clients we think you might be a match with.


As soon as you have registered on-line or joined offline database, we will consider you for our active clients list. After you have been chosen we will contact you to see if you are interested in being introduced to one or some of our clients. If there is an interest on your behalf, we will schedule a one-on-one private interview to get to know you better and determine if you will be a good potential match for each other. You can expect us to contact you immediately or in a few weeks or maybe in a year. Although there are no guarantees that once you are placed into our database you will be introduced to someone or we will have a match – but your chances are extremely good. It will depend completely on how soon and how often you will be chosen by one of our eligible clients. A professional photo shoot and well written profile will increase your chances dramatically. By joining our database you are investing in yourself and are increasing your chances to meet true love and live happily ever after. That’s what we wish for all our clients.


Once you will register you will be added to our mailing list. We may occasionally send you newsletters and email you notifications of special events such as charity events, holiday events or singles events offered by Sophisticated Matchmaking, Inc. We also invite you to check our website for the upcoming events and useful information. If you have started but not completed the registration process, we may also send you email messages encouraging you to complete the process and become a member. If you would rather not receive emails about new products, promotions or other noteworthy news, please email us with “Choice/Opt-out” in the subject line. SM fully complies with the requirements of the federal CAN-SPAM Act.


Once you have been approved, you will be added to our off-line database. This means that when our clients are reviewing profiles and for some reason skip your picture without knowing that you might be a perfect match for them, we make a special introduction and point their attention in your direction. Photos and short description profiles are sometimes deceiving and many times people who you might pass over the photo of someone you would actually prefer in real life.  And the opposite can also be true.  Joining our off-line database is a great option if you want to keep your information totally confidential. It can only be reviewed by the matchmaker and partially viewed by our clients. To increase your chances to be chosen, please SCHEDULE private inteview in person or over Skype.


This interview usually takes about 3 hours. We will dedicate as much time as necessary to ensure that we completely understand what it is you are seeking. You are encouraged to ask as many questions as possible.  In this way you will be confident and assured that we can fulfill your needs and wishes. This one-on-one interview is conducted in a relaxed but professional atmosphere at a convenient confidential location. During this meeting we will get a better sense of your style, personality, lifestyle and all those little things which make us different from one another. We will discuss and note your goals and dreams, your vision, your approach to life and what you are looking forward to accomplish.

During this interview:

  • We  will learn more about your family and past partners. We will help you evaluate your past relationships and identify your particular dating patterns.
  • We will learn more about you, your lifestyle, personality, character, your expectations and defining your criteria so we could conduct the personalized search, addressing your specific, individual preferences,  geographic considerations and various compatibility requirements. We want to know the little nuances of your personality – your energy, intelligence, humor and personal presentation – what makes you special  and desirable. We will inspire you and all of your senses to enjoy a new happier life.
  • We will help you set personal relationship goals for a more rewarding future by creating a Love Development Plan.
  • We will go though every detail of the process with you so you will get a clear understanding how our services work and what you can and cannot expect while working with us.
  • We will review the database members profiles and their photos together with you and make a list of potential matches for you.
  • You will also be introduced to our policies, public statement, terms and conditions, rules and practices so you can make a deliberate choice whether or not our service is for you. 

*A fee of $450 applies. The fee associated with the consultation is for Sophia’s time and does not guarantee membership or any introductions to individuals. The consultation fee is nonrefundable.


This interview usually takes about 1 hour to insure that we completely understand who you are and what it is you are seeking:

*A fee of $150 applies.