LOVE AND DATING ADVICE – HOW TO ATTRACT LOVE AND FULFILLING RELATIONSHIP
SEATTLE SINGLES EVENTS “KISS & TELL WITH SOPHIA ANDREEVA”
KISS AND TELL WITH SOPHIA ANDREEVA
Hosted by Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva!
Seattle’s Preeminent Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva will share with you the proven techniques she and her clients have personally used to attract ideal partner and divine relationships in record time! She will not only educate, but entertain and enlighten you.
With insight and humor she will bring to your attention what most modern singles are missing while searching for Mr. and Ms. Perfect. Through interactive exercises, candid discussion and hilarious anecdotes she will share with you the secrets of her unique matchmaking approach. You will also learn in a very interactive way how to interview your date as a professional matchmaker and the most powerful rules of attraction and sync with opposite sex.
Quite procrastinating and waiting for that special someone to fall out of the sky and start living your life today! Meet others in your local area who want to share relationship advice. Share your struggles and your successes and learn from each other. Make new friends! Come and join us!
WHAT OTHERS SAY ABOUT US
“If you have any issues or confusion about love at all, at least one visit to this group could open your mind to realizations and teach you how to be objective toward yourself in future relationships; well, in everything really!” – Gabríel Rey Morales (Aug 22, 2008)
“The group in attendance was open and willing to share views and listen to others.” – Kelly (Aug 21, 2008)
“The instructor is hot. Your questions can be answered. The insight of a professional matchmaker brings to light many topic that you can further explore on your own.” – Arland (Aug 14, 2008)
“It’s a different perspective on dating.” – Brian (Aug 11, 2008)
“Sophia has a lot of passion for what she does. She is a person that I feel that can improve your life just by being around her and listening to her speak.” – Brett (Jul 25, 2008)
“Good to come with a open heart, if you want to get better at dating and relationships” – Jacqueline (Jul 24, 2008)
Selected Topic Samples
*How to interview your date as a professional matchmaker!
*Two of the Most Powerful Rules of Attraction and Sync with Opposite Sex
*How to be in sync with the opposite sex
*Setting up Personal Goals and Love Development Plan
*Pursuing Love Deliberately or The Art Of Serendipity
*How to Attract Ideal Partners and Divine Relationships
*How to Become Successful and Attract Abundance into Your Life
*How to recognize self-limiting beliefs and overcome your biggest fears
*100 Days of Greatness – Life Transformational System to Improve You Relationships
*The Secrets of Happy Relationships and Success in Love
*Conflict Resolution with your partners and family members
*Overcoming the 3 Rs – Resettlement, Rejection and Regrets
*Proven Techniques to Boost Your Self-Esteem
*How to Sync with Opposite Sex
*40 years plus? Never Married-No Kids
*I want to get married What do I do wrong
*Healing a Broken Heart
*Find Yourself After Divorce
*Getting Back to Dating
*Why do you choose the same type of partner over and over again
*Why are you attracted to the opposites?
*Why your relationships change after having sex and after we get married
*How to stay friends with your Exes
*How to Break Old Patterns
*How to attract the type of partner you want?
*How to turn wounds of the past into your purpose for the future?
*How to Get Your Partner Back *How to handle a Triangle
*How to Move on With Your Life From Being Stuck to Being Loved
And many more…
MODERN DATING RULES
POWER OF PERSONAL MAGNETISM WORKSHOP
KISS & TELL WITH SOPHIA ANDREEVA
“BLUE TRUTH: A SPIRITUAL GUIDE TO LIFE & DEATH AND LOVE AND SEX BY DAVID DEIDA”
HOSTED BY: Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva
WHEN: Wednesday, July 25th, 2012 6:30 – 9:30pm
WHERE: Basil’s Hilton Bellevue 300 112th Avenue SE Bellevue, WA 98004
You are deeper than your life shows, and you know it. You are more loving than your relationships allow, more brilliant than your career suggests. In your secret depth of being, you are infinite, creative, boundless and utterly unable to press your full glory into the world. Or so it seems. In Blue Truth, David Deida presents a treasury of skills and insights for uncovering and offering your true heart of purpose, passion, and unquenchable love. In Part One, Deida shows you how to open as the entirety of the moment, feeling as deep inside and as far outside as you can, for as long as now opens. In Part Two, he reveals how to walk this path in the wilderness of intimate relationship, illuminating the art and play of sexual gifting, including how to expertly navigate the tangle of anger, jealousy, fear, lust, and much, much more. Blue Truth was named by Spirituality & Health Magazine (June 2006 issue) as one of the Best Spiritual Books of 2005, in the Personal Growth category.
“Have you ever looked closely at a flame…? The reds and yellows are easy to see but deep in the center of the flame is blue. You can easily avoid the blue, miss it altogether if you look at the surface colors. But always blue is here, deeper than where your vision stops…
Look into the sky. Look deeply. Blue. Look into the ocean. The deeper the water the bluer it gets. Blue is the color of deep. And beyond everything you can see, deeper than all things you like or don’t like, there is a place where everything is blue, so blue, like water that does not end….
…you are love. But you are trapped in the colors that possess your eyes and curl around your heart. Feel deeper than your sulk, feel deeper that what you can see, feel into the blue. … -everything you can see and know is more shallow than the blue truth.
And just what is the blue truth?
What is the true blue truth? Whatever sets your heart free. Whatever allows you to feel deeper than things seem. If you want to curl up and pout… nobody can stop you. But it hurts you and everyone to do so, because it’s a lie, and deep down, you know it.”
Excerpt taken from the epilogue of the book “Blue Truth” by David Deida
BLUE TRUTH: A SPIRITUAL GUIDE TO LIFE & DEATH AND LOVE AND SEX BY DAVID DEIDA
GIVE UP RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF
KISS & TELL WITH SOPHIA ANDREEVA
TOPIC: ENLIGHTENED RELATIONSHIPS – CHAPTER 8 FROM “THE POWER OF NOW” BY ECKHART TOLLE
Enter the NOW from whenever you are! Please read Chapter Eight from Book by Eckhart Tolle “The Power of NOW” for our discussion. Bring friends, family, and people from your business network too; we encourage you to share your experience with loved ones and colleagues. Get an inspirational experience and meet exquisite singles!!!
HOSTED BY: Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva
WHEN: Wednesday, June 27th, 2012 6:30 – 9:30pm
WHERE: Basil’s Hilton 300 112th Avenue SE Bellevue, WA 98004
Love/Hate Relationship
Unless and until you access the consciousness frequency of presence, all relationships, and particularly intimate relationships, are deeply flawed and ultimately dysfunctional. They may seem perfect for a while, such as when you are “in love,” but invariably that apparent perfection gets disrupted as arguments, conflicts, dissatisfaction, and emotional or even physical violence occur with increasing frequency.
It seems that most “love relationships” become love/hate relationships before long. Love can then turn into savage attack, feelings of hostility, or complete withdrawal of affection at the flick of a switch. This is considered normal.
If in your relationships you experience both “love” and the opposite of love — attack, emotional violence, and so on — then it is likely that you are confusing ego attachment and addictive clinging with love. You cannot love your partner one moment and attack him or her the next. True love has no opposite. If your “love” has an opposite, then it is not love but a strong ego-need for a more complete and deeper sense of self, a need that the other person temporarily meets. It is the ego’s substitute for salvation, and for a short time it almost does feel like salvation.
But there comes a point when your partner behaves in ways that fail to meet your needs, or rather those of your ego. The feelings of fear, pain, and lack that are an intrinsic part of egoic consciousness but had been covered up by the “love relationship” now resurface.
Just as with every other addiction, you are on a high when the drug is available, but invariably there comes a time when the drug no longer works for you.
When those painful feelings reappear, you feel them even more strongly than before, and what is more, you now perceive your partner as the cause of those feelings. This means that you project them outward and attack the other with all the savage violence that is part of your pain.
This attack may awaken the partner’s own pain, and he or she may counter your attack. At this point, the ego is still unconsciously hoping that its attack or its attempts at manipulation will be sufficient punishment to induce your partner to change their behavior, so that it can use them again as a cover-up for your pain
Every addiction arises from an unconscious refusal to face and move through your own pain. Every addiction starts with pain and ends with pain. Whatever the substance you are addicted to — alcohol, food, legal or illegal drugs, or a person — you are using something or somebody to cover up your pain.
That is why, after the initial euphoria has passed, there is so much unhappiness, so much pain in intimate relationships. They do not cause pain and unhappiness. They bring out the pain and unhappiness that is already in you. Every addiction does that. Every addiction reaches a point where it does not work for you anymore, and then you feel the pain more intensely than ever.
This is one reason why most people are always trying to escape from the present moment and are seeking some kind of salvation in the future. The first thing that they might encounter if they focused their attention on the Now is their own pain, and this is what they fear. If they only knew how easy it is to access in the Now the power of presence that dissolves the past and its pain, the reality that dissolves the illusion. If they only knew how close they are to their own reality, how close to God.
Avoidance of relationships in an attempt to avoid pain is not the answer either. The pain is there anyway. Three failed relationships in as many years are more likely to force you into awakening than three years on a desert island or shut away in your room. But if you could bring intense presence into your aloneness, that would work for you too.
From Addictive to Enlightened Relationship
Whether you are living alone or with a partner, this remains the key: being present and intensifying your presence by taking your attention ever more deeply into the Now.
For love to flourish, the light of your presence needs to be strong enough so that you no longer get taken over by the thinker or the pain-body and mistake them for who you are.
To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment.
To disidentify from the pain-body is to bring presence into the pain and thus transmute it. To disidentify from thinking is to be the silent watcher of your thoughts and behavior, especially the repetitive patterns of your mind and the roles played by the ego.
If you stop investing it with “selfness,” the mind loses its compulsive quality, which basically is the compulsion to judge, and so to resist what is, which creates conflict, drama, and new pain. In fact, the moment that judgment stops through acceptance of what is, you are free of the mind. You have made room for love, for joy, for peace.
First you stop judging yourself; then you stop judging your partner. The greatest catalyst for change in a relationship is complete acceptance of your partner as he or she is, without needing to judge or change them in any way.
That immediately takes you beyond ego. All mind games and all addictive clinging are then over. There are no victims and no perpetrators anymore, no accuser and accused.
This is also the end of all codependency, of being drawn into somebody else’s unconscious pattern and thereby enabling it to continue. You will then either separate — in love — or move ever more deeply into the Now together, into Being. Can it be that simple? Yes, it is that simple.
Love is a state of Being. Your love is not outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it cannot leave you. It is not dependent on some other body, some external form.
In the stillness of your presence, you can feel your own formless and timeless reality as the unmanifested life that animates your physical form. You can then feel the same life deep within every other human and every other creature. You look beyond the veil of form and separation. This is the realization of oneness. This is love.
Although brief glimpses are possible, love cannot flourish unless you are permanently free of mind identification and your presence is intense enough to have dissolved the pain-body — or you can at least remain present as the watcher. The pain-body cannot then take you over and so become destructive of love.
KISS & TELL with SOPHIA ANDREEVA
TOPIC: DATING 101: VELVET HUMMER – WAKE UP YOUR FEMININE POWERS
A Dating Class for Modern Smart and Beautiful Women looking for passionate committed relationship and marriage
HOSTED BY: Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva!
WHEN: Wednesday, June 13, 20126:30 – 9:30pm
WHERE: Basil’s Hilton Bellevue 300 112th Avenue SE Bellevue, WA 98004
Are you
– an Alfa Bitch?
– a Peachy Bitch?
– a Doormat?
– neither of these but things still don’t work?
Learn how:
– to screen and filter men in just a few dates in such a way that you don’t waste the golden years of your life on men that don’t deserve you
– find Mr. Right that is loving and cherishing you vs chasing him and living in a “WondeR-land”
– stop being used and cheated on;
– take control over your life, emotions and relationships with others
– date with No Drama
– find balance, peace, joy and love with no end
And … Finally to get an answer to the question:
“Where are all tall, dark and handsome, successful and looking for serious relationship, men hiding?”
Come and discover the insides of dating business and the reality of Seattle’s singles market.
Get You Love Development Plan Together — Get clarity about your goals and set realistic expectations supported with a smart A-B-C-D action plan to get what you want in love and live!
Use experience and first hands advice from Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia McDonald. Learn from other people’s mistakes!
Come and ask any questions you might have about men, love, relationship and sex and get your answers ! You can email it to me to remain confidential during the class!
You are just a few steps away from being loved and cherished. Don’t procrastinate — take action to change your life and find your happiness in love. Women of any age are welcome !
Men are welcome too — (feel free to come and join our discussion and meet the ladies! )
Meet others in your local area who want to share Relationship Advice. Share your struggles and your successes and learn from each other. Make new friends! Come and join us!
KISS AND TELL with Sophia ANDREEVA
TOPIC: “HEART HUNTING IN SEATTLE”
Single in Seattle? Come and join us at our upcoming KISS and TELL and learn How to Find Love and Passion, Secrets of Creating an Enticing Profile, Tips for Successful Search for Prospects, Best Ideas for Initiating a First Contact and Strategies of How to “Move Forward” to a “Happy Ending”.
HOSTED BY: Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva!
WHEN: May 30th, 2012 Wednesday 6:30pm-9:00pm
WHERE: www.SuiteBellevue.com
10500 NE 8th St, Suite 125, Bellevue, WA Phone: 425.679.6951
*** Suite would like to extend Happy Hour pricing until 8pm for your group. This will include 1/2 price on all specialty cocktails, 8 select wines, all draft beers, and 8 delicious small plates.
There’s lots of dating advice out there. Some of it is great, some of it is lousy, and lots of it is very popular and totally ineffective for helping you attract your soulmate and enjoy the “dating dance” without falling back into old patterns, beliefs, and habits. Most dating coaching and advice is very helpful for getting more dates, but is that really what you want – another date? even a “successful date”? Are you ready to start dating in a whole new way? Have you gotten to a point in your life where “good enough” dates just aren’t going to cut it anymore? Do you feel it’s time to finally attract your soulmate to you…and enjoy the dating process? Yes, you CAN enjoy instead of dread it, or be in fear of getting “hooked” into old patterns, habits, and “dating dances” with yet another wrong guy/girl for you?
Meet others in your local area who want to share Relationship Advice. Share your struggles and your successes and learn from each other. Make new friends! Come and join us!
WHAT OUR GUESTS SAY ABOUT THE EVENT:
“Hi Sophia,
Thank you for putting this event together. I learned some interesting things today, one very important bit was that I didn’t have a clear idea of what makes me (or other men) attractive to women. While I still don’t think I have a clear answer, at least now I have a clear question, and often that is more valuable. I also liked what you said about what women value is more about the connection than what [men] bring with it, because when I do connect, I usually connect very well. I really liked the example you showed where you played the role of a woman who was ready to fall in love and desired a monogamous relationship. It was clear, upfront, and I knew where I stood and where I could go. And I wasn’t left on the hook being the only person to create the container. Very well done. In my own journey of soul alchemy, I once hated charismatic guys who seemed to have their pick of whoever they wanted and they knew it, especially when they were playing with the girls I liked. What is new and different for me now is that I’ve learned that I am that guy: I am a lot of fun, I am wonderfully playful, have a lot of charisma (when I’m not busy stuffing it or hiding, which has been my MO in the past), and this is a valuable gift on top of all the other things I bring to the table. Integrating that this is okay and good still feels a little weird. Thanks again, and have a fabulous day!”
~ John, May 31st, 2012
KISS AND TELL WITH SOPHIA ANDREEVA
TOPIC: HEART HUNTING IN SEATTLE
Single in Seattle? Come and join us at our upcoming KISS and TELL and learn How to Find Love and Passion, Secrets of Creating an Enticing Profile, Tips for Successful Search for Prospects, Best Ideas for Initiating a First Contact and Strategies of How to “Move Forward” to a “Happy Ending”.
HOSTED BY: Seattle Premier Matchmaker Sophia Andreeva!
WHEN: May 30th, 2012 Wednesday 6:30pm-9:00pm
WHERE: www.SuiteBellevue.com 10500 NE 8th St, Suite 125, Bellevue, WA Phone: 425.679.6951
***Suite would like to extend Happy Hour pricing until 8pm for your group.
This will include 1/2 price on all specialty cocktails, 8 select wines, all draft beers, and 8 delicious small plates.
There’s lots of dating advice out there. Some of it is great, some of it is lousy, and lots of it is very popular and totally ineffective for helping you attract your soulmate and enjoy the “dating dance” without falling back into old patterns, beliefs, and habits. Most dating coaching and advice is very helpful for getting more dates, but is that really what you want – another date? even a “successful date”? Are you ready to start dating in a whole new way? Have you gotten to a point in your life where “good enough” dates just aren’t going to cut it anymore? Do you feel it’s time to finally attract your soulmate to you…and enjoy the dating process? Yes, you CAN enjoy instead of dread it, or be in fear of getting “hooked” into old patterns, habits, and “dating dances” with yet another wrong guy/girl for you?
Meet others in your local area who want to share Relationship Advice. Share your struggles and your successes and learn from each other. Make new friends! Come and join us!
KISS AND TELL with SOPHIA ANDREEVA
HOW TO MAKE RELATIONSHIP WORK
WHEN: May, 7th 2011
TIME: 6-8:30pm
WHERE: Basil’s – Hilton Bellevue 300 112th Avenue SE, Bellevue, WA 98004
COST: FREE
CLICK HERE TO RSVP (Please Include the date , the name of the event you are singing up for and how many people)
READ THIS BEFORE THE EVENT: here is some food for thoughts and discussion => MAKING RELATIONSHIP WORK
- This energizing personal growth experience will give you the inspiration and tools you need to reach your full potential and improve your relationships and love life and will help to avoid mistakes a lot of singles make while looking for their perfect mate.
- an inspirational experience
- developing exciting material
- amazing true stories
- real-world strategies for success in dating and love realtionship
- exquisite singles to meet
Meet others in your local area who want to share Relationship Advice. Share your struggles and your successes and learn from each other. Make new friends! Come and join us! Get an inspirational experience and meet exquisite singles!!!
TOPIC: “IF THE BUDDHA DATED”
“We will discuss the book “If The Buddha Dated” by Charlotte Kasl… This book is NOT related to Buddhism… It’s a handbook for FINDING LOVE ON A SPIRITUAL PATH. If you have not read it – still feel free to come and join our discussion:)”
When: February 26th, 2010
Saturday 6:00pm-9:00pm
Where: Basil’s Hilton Bellevue
300 112th Avenue SE, Bellevue, Wa 98004
Cost: $20.00
“We will discuss the book “If The Buddha Dated” by Charlotte Kasl… This book is NOT related to Buddhism… It’s a handbook for FINDING LOVE ON A SPIRITUAL PATH. If you have not read it – still feel free to come and join our discussion:)”
Let’s connect and brainstorm, learn and share, meet and greet, laugh and think, look inside ourselves and see our mirrors in each other:)
In this practical, playful, yet spiritual guide, Charlotte Kasl, author of the highly successful Finding Joy: 101 Ways to Free Your Spirit and Dance with Life, shows you what it would be like to have the ancient wisdom of the Buddha to guide you through the dating process.
Kasl brings a compassionate understanding to the anxiety and uneasiness of new love, and helps readers discover their potential for vibrant human connection based on awareness, kindness, and honesty. She approaches the dating process as a means for awakening, reminding us that when we live by spiritual rules, we bring curiosity and a light heart to the romantic journey.
Filled with quotations from Zen, Sufi, and other wisdom traditions, and informed by the experiences of people from all walks of life, here is a relationship book that will appeal to readers looking for more than a Venus-meets-Mars solution to the complex affairs of the heart.
TOPIC: “DATELESS ON VALENTINE’S DAY?”
Dateless on Valentine Day? Come and join us at our upcoming KISS and TELL and learn How to Date, Secrets of Creating an Enticing Profile, Tips for Successful Search for Prospects, Best Ideas for Initiating a First Contact and Strategies of How to “Move Forward” to a “Happy Ending”.
WHEN: FEBRUARY 5th, 2011, Sat 6:30pm-8:30pm
WHERE: BASIL’S HILTON BELLEVUE 300 112th Avenue SE, Bellevue, WA 98004
RSVP: HERE
There’s lots of dating advice out there. Some of it is great, some of it is lousy, and lots of it is very popular and totally ineffective for helping you attract your soulmate and enjoy the “dating dance” without falling back into old patterns, beliefs, and habits. Most dating coaching and advice is very helpful for getting more dates, but is that really what you want – another date? even a “successful date”?
Are you ready to start dating in 2011 in a whole new way? Have you gotten to a point in your life where “good enough” dates just aren’t going to cut it anymore?
Do you feel it’s time to finally attract your soulmate to you…and enjoy the dating process? Yes, you CAN enjoy instead of dread it, or be in fear of getting “hooked” into old patterns, habits, and “dating dances” with yet another wrong guy for you?
TOPIC: “HOW TO DATE ON FACEBOOK”
Need a date? Match.com is out. The secret of finding LOVE on FACEBOOK!!!
WHEN: March 18th, 2010 Thursday 6:30pm-8:30pm
WHERE: BASIL’S 300 112th Avenue SE, Bellevue, WA 98004
Need a date? Match.com is out. Facebook & the other social networks are the new way to meet people online. But it is not quite as simple as posting a profile and waiting for messages to arrive. It takes a little bit of thought and strategy, and you can meet lots of great people.
If you’re on Facebook, you can search through millions of profiles to find someone who strikes your fancy. Just like in the real world, there is a certain amount of skills you will need to catch someone’s interest. Facebook has a variety of ways to find dating partners. Some are through Facebook’s native feature set. Others are enabled by Facebook’s many Pages and Applications.
If you are scouting for members of the opposite sex, Facebook is a great place to look. Whether you just want a casual date or are looking for a life partner, plenty of options are available for you to browse through. Facebook is different than online dating sites, because not everyone is looking for romance. This eliminates some of the pressure, because there are no implied expectations when you begin a conversation. Of course, dating on Facebook requires the same level of prowess as dating in the real world — you just get to go about it at a different pace.
Come and join us at our upcoming KISS and TELL and learn How to Date on Facebook, Secrets of Creating an Enticing Profile, Tips for Successful Search for Prospects, Best Ideas for Initiating a First Contact and Strategies of How to “Move Forward” to a “Happy Ending”.
Well, Facebook has been phenomenal in bringing hearts closer. The social site has opened up new ways of meeting people and chatting online. If you are on Facebook and still without a date, its high-time to update your account! Please come and learn how to find love and happiness with just a one click of a mouse without leaving your house!
TOPIC: “MAKE THEM WANT YOU – MASTER YOUR ONLINE DATING”
How to make them want you? The secret here is not about making them like you but… about being a men no women can resist!!!!
WHEN: January 14st, 2010, Thursday, 6:30pm-8:30pm
WHERE: VERTIGO LOUNGE AND GRILL 989 112th Ave NE, Bellevue, WA 98004
1) Have you been on Match.com for months with NO results?
2) Some great dates but no great connection?
3) Do you get emails from all the people you DON’T like and NO emails from people you are actually interested?
4) Do people email you once and then disappear?
5) Do you get a lot of disappointing first dates?
If your answer to any of these questions is YES, then you definitely want to come and join our discussion. In just a couple of hours, you will learn the NEW WAY of dating that will get you the results you WANT! We will discuss what most modern singles are missing while searching for Mr. and Ms. Perfect. Through interactive exercises, candid discussion and hilarious anecdotes, Sophia will share the secrets of her unique matchmaking approach. We will also discuss:
1) How to create an on-line profile that attracts the kind of people you might be interested in and makes you stand out
2) How to approach on-line to get a desired response
3) How to communicate on-line with people you like in such a way that they want to meet you in person
4) How to select, filter and screen people on-line – so you get the most prequalified matches and don’t waist your time on first dates without a future
5) How to overcome feelings of frustration and rejection after a few failed attempts to connect with the right people or after connecting with the wrong people
6) How to turn a first date into the best date
7) How to make them want you
8) How to quickly figure out if He/She is the ONE within the first few dates
9) Are you consistently attracted to the “wrong” partner and wonder how to break your old patterns
10) How you can create more opportunities to connect with people wherever you go
TOPIC: ARE YOU READY TO MEET YOUR SOULMATE
Finding Love On A Spiritual Path
“Where there is no vision, the people perish”
– Proverbs 29:18
WHEN: November 19st, 2009, Thursday6pm-8pm
WHERE: Basil’s
COST: FREE
RSVP HERE
*Seats are going fast. Bring friends, family, and people from your business network too; we encourage you to share your experience with loved ones and colleagues.
GET AN INSPIRATIONAL EXPERIENCE AND MEET EXQUISITE SINGLES!!!
When you have found your soulmate, you’ll recognize him (or her) by 3 major criteria:
1) He/She shares your vision and attitude about life and views the world similarly to you. In other words, you must be “on the same page” as your soulmate… though not necessarily “the same letter”!!
2) You feel happy deep in your soul when you are around him/her, and you’ll feel more like your “best self.” They don’t change you, but you feel called to step into being the wonderful Goddess/Queen/Beauty or King/Man you know deep inside that you are. When you actually know what it feels like to expand into being more of the best you you can be, you’ll feel that familiar expansion and “woosh” of joy and confidence when you are with him/her because they will be connecting with you as that expansive and growing soul. A True soulmate is always growing and expanding because that is what your soul always wants to do – grow, expand, express more fully and more freely.
3) Your soulmate will be just as concerned about your happiness and your pursuit of your life’s dreams as he/she is about his/her own.
I recommend that you be clear (or become clear) about your vision and your purpose in life. In other words, what do you desire to be, do, and have in your life? Invest some time
and energy in forming and expanding your vision and purpose. The more clarity you have in knowing yourself and your vision, the easier it’ll be to recognize your soulmate when he shows up and lovingly supports you in living your best life – within your vision!
1) Preparation for Love
– Ground yourself with spiritual wisdom
– Stay present without attachment to the future outcomes and anchoring in the past
– Detach from your personal history
– Stay One with others and not separated
– Be guided by Ego or Spirit
– Practice spiritual equality in dating rules for man and women
2) Looking for a Soul mate: Awaken your desire
– Have a burning desire / call for the universe
– Seeking a true equal
– Explore the ways you bond (physical/material, intellect, interests, values, lifestyle, psychological/emotional, creativity/passion, spiritual, essence)
– Ready for intimacy; traits for fusion
– Define what you want
– Define what you have to give
– When to trust the Power of Attraction
3) Free your heart and resolve your “unfinished business”
– Get over past wounds from family, friends, past lovers, parents, spouses
– Find yourself when you lose yourself
– Observe your limiting beliefs
– Recognize your obstacles/fears on the way to love
– Red Flag Behavior of the other person
– Red Flag Behavior of your own
– Rationalizations and stories you have used to disregard your bottom line in the past
– Consequences of disregarding your bottom line or not taking care of yourself
– Overcome the limitations of the past (regrets, grieving, gratitude)
TOPIC: THE FIVE BIGGEST MISTAKES SINGLES MAKE WHILE SEARCHING FOR PERFECT MATE
“While your conscious mind is searching for the Perfect Mate, your subconscious mind is searching for the Perfect Match” – Anne Teachworth
WHEN: October 15, 2009 Thursday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: Basil’s
COST: FREE
RSVP HERE
***Seats are going fast. Bring friends, family, and people from your business network too; we encourage you to share your experience with loved ones and colleagues.
This energizing personal growth experience will give you the inspiration and tools you need to reach your full potential and improve your relationships and love life and will help to avoid mistakes a lot of singles make while looking for their perfect mate.
- an inspirational experience
- developing exciting material
- amazing true stories
- real-world strategies for success in dating and love realtionship
- exquisite singles to meet
Get an inspirational experience and meet exquisite singles!!!
TOPIC: HOW TO INTERVIEW YOUR POTENTIAL MATCH AS A PROFESSIONAL MATCHMAKER?
WHEN: August 13th, 2009
Thursday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: Basil’s
We will aslo discuss:
— How to interview your date as a professional matchmaker!
— Two of the Most Powerful Rules of Attraction and Sync with Opposite Sex
— How to be in sync with the opposite sex?
TOPIC: ENLIGHTENED RELATIONSHIPS – CHAPTER 8 FROM “THE POWER OF NOW” BY ECKHART TOLLE
Enter the NOW from whenever you are! If you have a chance please read Chapter Eight from Book by Eckhart Tolle “The Power of NOW” before the meeting. Our discussion will be based on that book.
- Tools and strategies to improve communication between sexes get an inspirational experience and meet exquisite singles!!
- A Thought-Provoking Take On The Minds Of Men and Women
- Forget Mars and Venus And Discover the Truth About The Opposite Sex
WHEN: July, 15th, 2009
Wednesday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: VERTIGO LOUNGE AND GRILL
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Please come and join! Bring friends, family, and people from your business network too; we encourage you to share your experience with loved ones and colleagues.
TOPIC: WHY MEN NEVER REMEMBER AND WOMEN NEVER FORGET
Tools and Strategies to Improve Communications Between Sexes
- A Thought-Provoking Take On The minds Of Men and Women
- Fascinating Tour Of The Science And Art Of Love
- Forget Mars and Venus And Discover the Truth About The Opposite Sex
WHEN: July, 1st, 2009
Wednesday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: VERTIGO LOUNGE AND GRILL
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GET AN INSPIRATIONAL EXPERIENCE AND MEET EXQUISITE SINGLE
SOME OF THE SUGGESTED TOPICS FOR DISCUSSION:
WHY WE LOVE
The Nature And Chemistry Of Romantic Love
- Chemistry Of Love: Scanning The Brain In Love
- Taking Control Over Passion: Making Love Last
- Biology Of Our Romantic Choices
MEN AND WOMEN: ESSENTIAL DIFFERENCE
Tools And Strategies To Improve Communication Between Sexes
- What’s Wrong With Me??? You Must Be Kidding… What’s Wrong With You?
- Why Men And Women Respond Differently To Stress?
- What Did You Just Say? Why Is It Always That What He Said Is Not What She Had Heard
- What’s Wrong With Us? She Wants To Talk About It And He Will Sit Silently And Brood Over Its Details…
- Will You Marry Me? Why Women Are Always Ready To Commit And Men Not?
- Why Won’t He Ask For Directions?
- Why Can A Woman Tell When You Are Lying?
- And What Is It About Man And Lists…?
- Why Does She Always Want To Talk About Relationships?
- Why Can’t He See What Is Bothering Her?
CELEBRATING MEN AND SATISFYING WOMEN
Relationship As A Spiritual Practice
- Addiction To Each Other And The Search For Wholeness
- From Addicted Relationship To Enlightened
- The End Of Love Drama
- Why Women Closer To Enlightenment
- Giving Up Relationship With Yourself
TOPIC: THE ART OF MODERN DATING
Dating Tips and Ideas from a Professional Dater!
WHEN: June 17th, 2009 Wednesday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: VERTIGO LOUNGE AND GRILL
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Creative, Fun and Sexy Ways to Spend Time Together in Rescission!!!!
- Dating in Rescission – where to invite your date when you are on a budget?
- How to handle rejection?
- How to turn every date into a FUN time even if you are not a match?
- How to get a date?
- How to get a second date?
- How to tell he/she is not into you?
- How to get what you want?
- How to let know your date youa re not interested?
- How is paying?
- Is is appropriate to kiss on a first date?
- Is it appropriate to have sex on a first date? (from both – men and women perspectives)
Seattle’s preeminent matchmaker and professional dater Sophia Andreeva will share with you the proven techniques she and her clients have personally used to have a great success with dating. Get the rusults you want and deserve. With insight and humor she will bring to your attention what most modern singles are missing while searching for Mr. and Ms. Perfect. Through interactive exercises, candid discussion and hilarious anecdotes she will share with you the secrets of her unique matchmaking approach. You will also learn in a very interactive way how to interview your date as a professional matchmaker and the most powerful rules of attraction and sync with opposite sex.
TOPIC: CONFESSIONS OF A MATCHMAKER
WHEN: May 28th, 2009 Thursday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: Basil’s Hilton Bellevue
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How To Turn The Wounds Of The Past Into The Purpose Of The Future
The greatest fear of Nothing… Are you afraid of nothing, of being nothing….If there is anything that you would change, what it would be? What is missing in your life today?
I will take my own life as an example and will share with you how mistakes I made in the past made me who I am today & how I overcame my fears and learned to live with a purpose of love!
The three R’s: Resettlement, Rejection, Regret
If you will be able to remove the programming associated with these emotions, you will free enough space in your mind to be able to move objects (telekinesis). Your mind spends an incredible amount of time on these tree issues and the neurons of the brain are occupied with resentment and regret. Through proper stimuli, your brain makes connections fro thought all the time. When you do the Feeling work/work on fears, you stimulate the brain and add new connections. You learn how to live without specific negative habits. You give them the ability to shut down receptors that are looking for these negative emotional Programs and make new pathways to positive ones. Your cells have receptors for emotions. Whether that emotion is depression or happiness, it’s like a “fix” to your cell. Once the receptor is used to the emotion, it has to have it just like a drug. IF you are used to being depressed, you will create depression. While working on their fears and reprogramming people have to learn what is it like to live without depression, without feeling miserable, without the “poor me” syndrome and retrain the neuron to accept joy, happiness and responsibility for their life.
AWARENESS _ is all we need to start the change _ when after the work is done but these negative emotions appear in the person’s life, they have conscious awareness and can shut down the negative emotion and open it for positive ones. Every person in your life serves you in some way. Treat everyone as a possibility IF you have one person who that gives you a difficult time and presents resistance in your life, perhaps resistance is the way you are motivated…
Regrets, as well, can keep you from getting better. Perhaps of failed relationships, marriages, of marriages that are still lonely, being lonely, not telling someone you love them, etc. all can keep the person very sick. It will affect their lungs as well as their body.
Rejection can influence a person for the most of their life. It can prohibit success and finding true love. The fear of rejection can cause one to fail before they even start something, and it can cause someone to sabotage themselves in everything they do.
Changing the fear of rejection allows a person to live their life.
I am rejected by…
I am afraid to be rejected by…
I am not accepted by
I am afraid not to be accepted
Instead – I accept myself
I understand what it feels like to live without being rejected…
I resent this person – I release resentment and I understand what it feels like to live without resentmen
I regret (the situation) – I am free of regret and I understand what it feels like to live without regret….
Sometimes we attract people to our lives not because our positive energy matches but when our negative energies match.
Take a look at your life and watch how people show up in your life and try to see with what purpose. Try to find out why they serve you the way they do. Is it because you are a victim? Or because you need a conflict to function? Or something else? If they are serving you in a negative way to create positive result maybe it is time to free them form these obligation. But if you do not release the belief which inside of you that is causing this situation, you will replace the scenario. For example – if you just break the relationship with a person who was serving you in a wrong way – you will replace him very soon with a new one.
Self-Check for Programs:
- Self-Compassion
- Acceptance
- Joy
- Living in the now
- Sacrifice
- Beliefs about Money
- Struggle
- Suffering
- I am Alone
- Victims
- Overweight
- Hatred and Forgiveness
- Hatred and Prejudice
TOPIC: WHY WE PICK THE MATES WE DO? CONSCIOUS OR SUBCONSCIOUS CHOICE?
WHEN: May 14th, 2009 Thursday 6pm-8pm
COST: SPECIAL OFFER – FREE PASS IN MAY
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Like most people, you probably believe that you are making the love choices – that is, chosen both short term and long term romantic partners – largely based on surface stuff such as looks, or a sense of humor, or social acceptability. What you probably haven’t realized is that there are all kinds of things going on beneath that surface having to do with the deepest parts of your subconscious mind. You may be reacting to an attractive face but you are reacting to things deep within another’s personality that bring out unconscious responses deep within your personality. It’s those responses both positive and negative, that can pull you strongly into relationships quite quickly and then pull those relationships apart over time.
After interviewing hundreds of single people I have discovered the main problem is that what people think they are looking for and what they desire, indeed, are two different things. There is an Actual Me and a Desired Me and that determines our “actual” and “desired” dreams and that predetermines our choices.
While your conscious mind is searching for the Perfect Mate, your subconscious mind is searching for the Perfect Match. What people visualize in their mind as a perfect match is actually sitting deep in unconscious and is hard wired. It determines your relationships choices for the rest of your life. Because of it, you crave specific types of people and situations whether they are good for you or not. Everyone has a pattern they use in the relationships. You will continue to do this unless you do something to change your hard wiring. Only method that imprints the original primal level, pulls out your core fears and interrupts your original wiring, can change your relationship patterns.
TOPIC: “LEARN THE SECRET BEHIND SECRET” – MAKE A SHIFT IN YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS AND LET QUANTUM WORLD INTO YOUR LIFE!
WHEN: July 29th, 2009 Wednesday 6pm-8pm
WHERE: VERTIGO LOUNGE AND GRILL
COST: $10.00
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If you think what you have seen in “The Secret” DVD or book was interesting, wait ’til you see what I have to show you…”The Secret Behind The Secret”. This is for those who want to Master The Secret.
How many people do you know who can honestly say they are living their dreams?
Are you? Even if you know about the power of “The Secret” and other manifestation techniques, you might not be getting all you can out of them.
In fact, most people give up trying to attract what they want within a few months! They don’t see the results they’re looking for, and throw the baby out with the bath water!
“How Many Times Have you wondered When The Real Change Is Going To Happen in Your Life?”
My many years of research in Physics, Philosophy, and Spirituality have led me down a path that has crossed yours today.
Everyone can be a miracle worker. There is a science behind it. How is it that sometimes you can drive from office to home, without remembering how you got home? Because, you do it subconsciously, like an autopilot. That’s exactly how successful people attract abundance. They go through their lives and make all the right turns, effortlessly. When you follow the steps in this method, you program yourself to achieve anything effortlessly.
Here’s What You Experience Soon After You Make A Shift in Your Consciousness…
- You will start experiencing Synchronicities – Meaningful coincidences related to what you want to manifest.
- Serendipitous events start pouring into your life – Suddenly, it seems everyone and everything wants to help you to get you what you desire.
- People and places are suddenly so accommodating to your desires.
- Your Reality starts shifting, even though you may be around the same place
TOPIC: MAKE A SHIFT IN YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS: LET QUANTUM WORLD INTO YOUR LIFE
Can you imagine what kind of things can happen to you when you don’t block your mind from possibilities available to you? You can shift your own thoughts and create your own new reality!
Please come and join! Bring friends, family, and people from your business network too; we encourage you to share your experience with loved ones and colleagues.