Why Hire A Coach

LET US HELP YOU UNPACK YOUR PAST

“Millions of people never analyze themselves. Mentally, they are mechanical products of the factory of their environment—preoccupied with breakfast, lunch, and dinner, working and sleeping, and going here and there to be entertained. They don’t know what or why they are seeking, nor why they never realize complete happiness and lasting satisfaction. By evading self-analysis, people go on being robots, conditioned by their environment. True self-analysis is the greatest art of progress.” ~ Paramahansa Yogananda

Imagine a train that stopped because a tree fell on the rails. You need to go out and remove this obstacle, and then continue on the path. The conscious coach is someone who can help you clear the path to your happiness—doing so in the most efficient way. We don’t drive your train to the desired destination; instead, we show you all possible routes to get there. We give you the tools necessary to clear the blocked rails. Then it is your decision which path you choose and what match you pick.

During your initial consultation, we ZOOM IN and examine all the details of your situation, and then we ZOOM OUT to get the big picture so we can evaluate your situation objectively.

Personal growth is a comprehensive process of expanding your inner freedom and self-realization. It will give you transformational results in your relationships—romantic, familial, and professional. And that is what our program helps you with:

• We teach you awareness of your own boundaries and the boundaries of others
• We help you remove illusions and self-defenses
• We help you track your emotions and response patterns in conflicts
• We help you upgrade your communication skills
• We keep you accountable for developing personal resources (image/relationship/career/etc.)
• We work with you on growing a healthy sense of self-respect and adequate self–esteem

BECOMING YOUR MIRROR & A FLASHLIGHT

“He who looks in the mirror of the water first sees his own image. He, who looks at himself, risks meeting himself. The mirror does not flatter; it shows accurately what is reflected in it, namely that fact that we never show the world because we hide it by the persona, the mask of the actor. This is the first test of courage on the inner path, a test, which is enough to frighten most people because the encounter with oneself belongs to those unpleasant things, one avoids as long as one can project the negative onto the environment.” ~ Carl Gustav Jung

Why our conscious coaching sessions are effective?

Most clients just throw all of their emotions and frustration at a coach. The coach then has to point out to a client his self-defenses and illusions.

We carefully listen to how you express yourself when you tell us your story. The evaluation of problems doesn’t depend on what specific story you are telling. Instead, what matters is the form the story is in, and how you formulate your thoughts when telling it. This demonstrates your level of consciousness, and the state of your boundaries, self-esteem, and self-respect.

Who Are You?

“To study yourself does not mean to add more knowledge to your cluttered brain’s ideas about yourself, but to remove all of the customary defining characteristics you usually associate self with: name, race, gender, occupation, social status, past, as well as all of the psychological judgments you make about yourself. When the self is stripped down to its essential core, all that can be said about it is: “I am; I exist.”  ~ Adyashanti

When your thoughts are separated from your emotions and experiences, they don’t help you comprehend reality; instead, they work to distort reality in order to defend your vulnerable ego. Only once you gain the courage to see things as they are—without self-deception or illusions—can you become clear about your life events. This is what leads you down the path to success.

Once your coach recognizes what mechanisms you are using to protect yourself from the harsh reality, it becomes possible to show you what your undistorted reality looks like. Then, we can help you fix your boundaries, restore your self-respect, and start growing your resources. We’ll help increase your magnetism and spontaneity by teaching you how to manage your vital energy.

After that, you will begin to swim on your own for a while until a new illusion hits you—making you lose your sense of reality and starting the process anew. It’s a cycle that repeats as long as it needs to. The time in between these cycles gets longer and longer until the cycle is completely broken and disappears forever.

STOP SEARCHING FOR A LIFE PARTNER ON AUTO-PILOT

You are interacting with the same people from your circle and see the same situations on repeat. You think they are different, but they all match your level of consciousness.  You react the same way in these repeated situations.

It might feel like you have a choice, and that you’re improving. But, the same type of relationship pattern shows up again in your life—no matter how hard you are trying to avoid it. You even start thinking that all people are this way; that you have a limited number of options available, and with age, that number of options is only shrinking.

The problem is, everyone has a pattern they use in relationships. What we call chemistry exists deep in the unconscious and is hard-wired. It determines your relationship choices for the rest of your life. Because of it, you crave specific types of people and situations, whether they are right for you or not. You will continue to do this unless you do something to change your hard wiring.

We are used to the way we think and consider ourselves to be rational and natural. But the truth is, we are driven predominantly by our subconscious. Some people choose their partner on auto-pilot—falling for lust. All is well until conscious and unconscious reasoning starts to contradict each other. Then we fall into deep inner conflict. One that prevents us from reaching our goals and dreams—blocking us from the happiness we desire.

BREAK YOUR PATTERNS BY CHANGING YOUR INNER WIRING

If the same toxic love story keeps repeating for you, it can only mean one thing—that you didn’t heal the original, inner issue. Until you do this, you’ll keep attracting circumstances that repeat the experience. This cycle persists until you are able to internally grow and evolve.

If your relationships fall apart and something seems to be blocking your happiness, we help you to figure out what YOU did to contribute to it. If you refuse to recognize your faults and keep looking for a “better partner” than last time, the same situation will repeat until you figure it out for yourself.

If you have bad boundaries, no matter how high your objective significance might be, a matchmaker can’t have a high success rate with you. You have to be pleasant in your communication skills to be popular and lovable. 

You can choose to allow your negative patterns to consume you, or to embark on the self-discovery journey and transcend these limiting cycles.

THE PROBLEM ISN’T NOT KNOWING WHAT TO DO

In most cases, even if you know exactly what to do, you cannot exercise the decision. You cannot change your wiring by reading a book. If you could, you would have exactly the kind of relationships you want by now. Without special training, most people have no way to reach a new level of personal development, since their experience runs them around in circles.

Our brain does not absorb the knowledge that is not related to skills. If you don’t need to solve a problem at the time of acquiring the knowledge, you will not absorb said knowledge. That’s why working hand in hand on coaching and dating (practicing dating and receiving professional feedback) at the same time is the most productive. It creates a strong motivation for problem-solving and creates a model of reality in which the skill was correctly applied—the tools turning out to work effectively. This also applies to business training or anything else.

Only a method that imprints the original, primal level and interrupts your original wiring can change your relationship patterns. Working with a conscious coach will cause almost immediate shifts in consciousness—such as a reduction of ego-centrism, increased empathy towards others, and improved boundaries. It will give you transformational results in your personal relationships, your family relations, and your relationships with your colleagues.