11.04.2025
When Love Becomes Control: Navigating Modern Dating
“When Love Turns Into Control”: The Illusion of Possessiveness in Modern Dating IntroductionIn the realm of dating and matchmaking, it’s natural to want deep, meaningful connections. But what happens when you start to believe that one person alone is the key to your happiness—so much so that you try to keep a tight grip on […]
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29.03.2025
Breaking Free from Perfectionism and Self-Criticism
The Curse of the Ideal: Breaking Free from Perfectionism Is perfection a noble goal, or a hidden curse that undermines your potential for real happiness? Many spiritual teachers, psychologists, and Gestalt therapy pioneers like Fritz Perls warn that pursuing the “ideal” can become a punishing obsession—an unattainable benchmark driving you to self-criticism, relational conflict, and […]
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25.03.2025
Why You Can’t Find a Partner: Matchmaking Tips for Success
Why You Can’t Find a Partner: Matchmaking Tips for Success Are you longing to find a partner but consistently coming up empty-handed? Whether you’re exploring high-end matchmaking services or simply navigating the dating scene on your own, you may encounter two hidden obstacles. First, you might not be part of any social circles that facilitate […]
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23.03.2025
Finding a Match or New Relationship: How Illusions Shape Our Reality
Finding a Match or New Relationship: How Illusions Shape Our Reality Introduction Have you ever been certain that finding a match or new relationship hinges on external events—coincidental moments, perfect first dates, or being in “the right place at the right time?” We often interpret life’s happenings as purely external, forgetting that our inner layers—our […]
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11.03.2025
Turn Dreams into Reality and Overcome Illusions
All Posts, Dating and Relationship Coaching
10 Steps to Turn Your Dreams into Reality (and Avoid Illusions) Introduction Having a dream is not enough. You have to find the courage to pursue it, reignite your enthusiasm for chasing goals, and make sure your dreams are based on reality instead of fantasies. Far too often, people confuse dreams with illusions, leading them […]
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05.03.2025
Healthy Self-Esteem: Overcoming Illusions of Grandeur
All Posts, Dating and Relationship Coaching
The Real Difference Between “Illusions” (Inflated Ego) and Healthy Independent Self-Esteem In personal development conversations, you may come across the term “illusions,” which describes a type of inflated ego or a “crown” mentality. This “illusion” isn’t just simple confidence—it’s a distorted self-image built on feeling superior and placing oneself above others. At first glance, it […]
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26.02.2025
Why Love Is Blind
All Posts, Love, Sex and Gender
Why Love Is Blind When people talk about love, they often do so in extremes—some paint it as an almost mythical force that guarantees instant mutual devotion, while others dismiss it as inevitably fleeting and irrational. Neither viewpoint seems to capture the reality that love, in its essence, is neither “false” nor automatically “true.” Rather, […]
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14.02.2025
From My Heart to Yours: A Valentine’s Day Wish for True, Enduring Love
From My Heart to Yours: A Valentine’s Day Wish for True, Enduring Love This Valentine’s, Treat Yourself: 50% off the Love Audit & Initial Orientation (see more details below) February 14th, 2025 Dear Romantic Realists (and Dreamers Alike), Valentine’s Day is upon us yet again—overflowing with red roses, dainty chocolates, and polished love stories gracing […]
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