08.03.2025
How to Approach Someone Politely: The Art of Courteous Introductions
Courtesy and the Rules of Meeting Someone New 1. Demanding Attention Isn’t Polite When you want to approach or meet someone—especially a woman—demanding that she stop everything and pay attention to you is never the right tactic. If you say “Give me your time!” or “Talk to me right now!” you’re intruding on her space […]
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05.03.2025
Are Dating Sites Turning Us Cynical?
Are Dating Sites Turning Us Cynical? A Matchmaker’s Take on the ‘Wallet vs. Body’ Paradox Looking for a deeper connection online? It takes more than a swipe—it takes mindful conversation and an open heart. Dating sites are everywhere—some promising a fairy-tale romance, others a convenient way to expand your options. In theory, these platforms exist […]
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28.02.2025
Choosing a Partner and Embracing Self-Worth: Breaking Free from Approval-Seeking
1. Why Chasing Approval Can Hurt Your Self-Worth Have you ever found yourself approval-seeking at the expense of your own comfort? Perhaps you twisted your personality to avoid fear of rejection when choosing a partner or pursuing a new opportunity. This tendency to rely on others’ validation can trap you in a cycle that undermines […]
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28.02.2025
Secrets of Pickup (NLP) and Seduction: Exploring Dominance in Attraction
Introduction: The Myth of Dominance in Pickup Many pickup artists and NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) enthusiasts argue that the most effective way to spark a woman’s desire is by exhibiting uncompromising and consistent dominance. According to pickup theory, every woman is “genetically programmed” to seek a dominant male partner. However, anthropologists and biologists often dispute this […]
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13.02.2025
Online Dating Sites: Debunking the Myths
Pursuing love deliberately is not desperation but a conscious choice to find and nurture a genuine connection. Introduction: The (Mis)Belief in “Destiny” For many people yearning for meaningful connections, “waiting for destiny” can be an excuse for inaction. The assumption is that if love is truly meant to be, it will appear spontaneously—no real effort […]
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06.02.2025
Is Valentine’s Day Ruining Your Relationship? Overcome Gift-Giving Pressure
Is Valentine’s Day Ruining Your Relationship? Overcome Gift-Giving Pressure and Avoid Breakups Valentine’s Day, much like New Year’s, often becomes the final spark for couples to break up or get into heated arguments—sometimes on that exact date, sometimes just before or right after. It’s not an accident: the sense of obligation on February 14—to be […]
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20.12.2024
Case Study: The High-Rise Lounge Encounter
All Posts, Dating, Matchmaker’s Chronicles
Narrative Scenario Alyssa, 37, is on a brief getaway in a city she’s been longing to explore. After a busy day of visiting galleries, she returns to her hotel’s sleek, top-floor lounge. Instead of heading straight to her room, she decides to enjoy a quiet evening coffee at the bar. Dressed tastefully—soft blouse, fitted trousers, […]
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06.12.2024
The Economics of Love: Lessons from a Viral Craigslist Post
In the world of modern relationships, ambition, and financial aspirations, a viral Craigslist post from a self-described “spectacularly beautiful” woman seeking a wealthy husband stirred the internet into a frenzy. Her candid, transactional approach to finding a partner sparked heated debates about love, self-worth, and the perceived value of beauty and wealth. Let’s explore her […]
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