Sophisticated Matchmaking is the ONLY boutique high-end matchmaking company in the Northwest providing elite, ultra-exclusive personalized matchmaking, dating and relationship coaching services with upscale introductions to relationship-committed people.
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A letter from CEO and Founder:
Are you ready for love? Are you looking for your soul mate? Are you attractive, smart and successful? And are you single?
If you answered ‘yes’ to all these questions – Sophisticated Matchmaking can help you find the love of your life and make it easy and stress-free.
We are not an online dating service – we are traditional matchmakers who will bring you the matches that live up to your standards and fit your lifestyle.
We offer our clients a unique "3 step" approach. We will help you evaluate your past relationships and identify your particular patterns. At the same time, we help you refresh your current appearance and image and inspire you and all of your senses to enjoy a new happier life. And finally, we help you set personal relationship goals for a more rewarding future by creating a Love Development Plan.
Don’t wait for the future to knock on your door -
Pursue Love Deliberately!
Sophia McDonald
CEO and Founder / Certified Matchmaker
Love and Relationships Coach
Sophisticated Matchmaking, Inc
Direct: (206) 683-0089
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VOTED #1 BEST MATCHMAKER IN WESTERN WASHINGTON 2011 ON KING'S BEST OF WEST WASHINGTON
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SOPHISTICATED MATCHMAKING IN MERCER ISLAND WA WAS VOTED TO BE #1 BEST MATCHMAKER IN WESTERN WASHINGTON ON KING'S BEST OF WEST WASHINGTON IN 2011
Sophisticated Matchmaking thrilled to be named the #1 Best Matchmaker in Western Washington in 2011 again! Thanks to all who voted for us!
READ MORE HERE
Tom L. … voted BEST Matchmaker
Sophisticated Matchmaking is not one of the best it is THE best matchmaking service on the planet. Competent, customer oriented and perfect organized fulfilling exact the desires of customer looking for more than fun but rather for a sophisticated intellectual and yet beautiful mate
3 hours ago
Greg W. … voted BEST Matchmaker
Sophia McDonald is very professional.
4 hours ago
Star … voted BEST Matchmaker
Sophisticated Matchmaking is absolutely the best service in WA. There's no comparisons and I wish Sophia continued success in providing the best matchmaking service that's dedicated with passion, professionalism, and deeply understanding people at their spiritual levels.
5 hours ago
Dianaellis … voted BEST Matchmaker
There is no competition to Sophisticated Matching Service in WA. I wish we had you in LA! Good luck to you and much success! You so much deserve it!
6 hours ago
Alena C. … voted BEST Matchmaker
Sophia and Her Matchmaking team is the best in Washington!
8 hours ago
Inna B. … voted BEST Matchmaker
This is by far the Most sophisticated match-making services in the region! Best of luck to Sophia.
9 hours ago
Candace M. … voted BEST Matchmaker
She is works very hard and she is amazing!
9 hours ago
Deborah S. … voted BEST Matchmaker
Sophia is amazing. She actually helps people in a very conscious way get date ready
15 hours ago
Leon … voted BEST Matchmaker
Sophia is a very hard working matchmaker and is thinking all the time for her clients. Thank you!
18 hours ago
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SEATLLEITE / FEBRUARY, 2011 -SURE-FIRE WAY TO FIND LOVE?
Sign up with Seattle’s ultra-exclusive personalized matchmaking service.
Big plans to lavish your significant other with chocolates, flowers and romance on the 14th? No? No problem. Just connect with local certified matchmaker, love and relationship expert Sophia McDonald for some overdue help in that departmentMcDonald, 37, has professionally arranged dates since 2007 when she founded her company, Sophisticated Matchmaking — now an established boutique high-end matchmaking company. However, she stresses, setting people up is just one aspect of her work.
“I call it the art of serendipity,” she explained, over coffee at her home office on Mercer Island. “Serendipity is when you are looking for something, but something else comes to you, and to your surprise, you like that second thing more. That’s what people do with me. They increase their chances of serendipity catching them.”
As it happened, professional matchmaking “caught” McDonald in a most serendipitous way. Born in Russia to a wealthy family, she says her privileged upbringing allowed her to travel and experience different cultures of the world at a young age. She earned a Master’s degree in Political Studies, which allowed her to become a public relations consultant for several Russian politicians. She likens her PR work to her matchmaking, because, in both cases, she was “helping people sell and represent themselves and create a winning profile.”
When she was 26, McDonald immigrated to the United States. Soon after, she fell in love with a successful American real estate developer, whom she describes as “tall, blond and handsome.” The couple wed in 2000. Sadly the marriage did not last, and they divorced several years later.
“I’ve been through good and bad, dating and married and divorced, trying it all,” she admitted. “As a result, it’s allowed me to have a compassion and understanding of where my clients are coming from.”
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HAPPILY MATCHED
"Dear Sophia, I met my soul mate....we met and married in 3 months, both of us thinking we would never ever be married again.
When you know, you know. Best wishes to you." ~Female, Seattle/ WA, September 2011
October 31st, 2010 - I'm speechless beyond words, last night Nathaniel proposed so I'm now engaged ♥ we are both very grateful for having such wondeful friends in our lifes to share such great news. Thank you for all your love and well wishes! ♥ ~ Mercedes Sunday at 6:39pm
October 9th, 2010 - I never thought that my love for you could be so strong, I never imagined that I could find someone like you, neither I could ever imagine I will have a second chance to love again, you meant everything to me, I am forever honored by allowed me to be a part of you !PS I love U~ M.S.

April 1, 2010 at 4:02pm
Sophia, hello, we just wanted to touch base to let you know that tomorrow is our six month anniversary, and we couldn't be more enamored with one another. Though our time together feels like it's gone by in a flash, other times, it feels like we've been together forever and have so much in common. We are now both equally excited in pursuing our relationship (and our dreams) together. This match would not have come about without your keen talents, of which we are overflowing with gratitude towards you.
~ Nathaniel & Mercedes
FROM BACHELORETTE #12 
(Thursday, June 03, 2010 7:41 PM)
Hi Sophia; Good to see you yesterday. Thanks for the kind words you wrote about me on your facebook. So true. Funny that my perfect match was one person away from me and that person was you. So thanks Sophia for the daily butterflies in my stomach, the rose colored glasses I wear all day, the swellingin my heart and buckling knees. It's all really good. Hope for you too. XO
FROM HER MATCH:
(Friday, June 04, 2010 11:32 AM)
Sophia, Yes..! I want to say thanks also.. She is awesome for me..! So many reasons why.. She is my match..!
I am falling in love again for the first time in so many years..! I am not so grumpy anymore..:-))
Thanks again, The best to you Sophia and God bless!
FROM BACHELORETTE #12
Dear Sophia; I just wanted to thank you for your highly intuitive gifts that have united me with someone who is potentially my life partner. When I first came to you with the desire to meet the man of my dreams, I felt in some strange way that you in fact were capable of doing this. I felt this partly because you operate at a different energetic level in looking for potential soul mates but also because you “see” potential everywhere. This is a gift and I see that in you. After just a few meetings with you, I could sense that you felt my “essence” which is important when trying to find a compatible partner. I could feel the universal forces working within you to try and find my match. And you did that very quickly. My first match!!!!!!!!!!!!! I knew instantly that this man was on my life page and we had many karmic overlaps and synchronicities to play out. That has been true and now 1 month later we are growing closer and closer to each other with the hope that we develop a long lasting and enduring relationship filled with happiness. We are both thankful for you Sophia as you have changed both of our lives and made us better people. I hope your gifts can be felt by many others as love is the universal energy and should be shared. It’s the only thing that will make this world a better place. Heartfelt thanks Sophia for your spiritual and intuitive perspective on people and love. ~SLM, Seattle, June 7th, 2010
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DATING, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP COACHING PACKAGE
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LOVE AND DATING COACHING PACKAGE

Sign up for our most popular relationship coaching package "100 Days of Greatness".
The cost for the program is $2,500 for a three month intensive coaching camp.
Open a door to a happy life full of Love and Happiness!
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WHAT IS TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING
Coaching is personal assistance with the processes, techniques, and exercises you've already learned using abilities you already possess. Unlike some forms of therapy, coaching is not designed to go on forever. Miracles and magic happen quickly when you're committed to making your dreams come true! Sometimes others can see what we're missing better than we can ourselves. With coaching, you'll be guided to focus more fully on what you desire, and see the stumbling blocks that are in the way of you creating your magnificent life. Nobody will be doing the work for you - it's YOU making it work for yourself. Does it work? There are no guarantees. It depends upon how much attention you give it and how committed you are to making it work. Miraculous results can be produced when you have focused support. During coaching sessions, you'll be engaged in the process of discovering your own truth and come away with a plan to create magic in your life.
Do you ever experience any of the following emotions - humiliation, blame, despair, regret, anxiety, and hatred - in your relationships with others? We will leave you with a step by step PLAN to create peace, love and understanding in your relationships, when nothing seems to work. It is not that hard as is seems. All it takes is to have a look from a perspective you have never had before - "You cannot change what you have by using what you have created it with"
“100 DAYS OF GREATNESS”
During our coaching sessions we will be focusing on working at inner transformation, personal growth, emotional healing, working on your limitations, blocks and fears. I will also provide you with relationships support and advise related to specific everyday situations, where you learn new tools and strategies for successful communication with an opposite sex, get a feedback and a new outlook and approach to handle conflicts, miscommunication, dating rules and etiquette, etc.
"100 DAYS OF GREATNESS" HELPS TO LEARN HOW TO:
- speak to your ego instead of letting ego to speak to you whenever it wants
- move from “What is missing in my life” to “What is wonderful about my life”
- replace an “Old Me” image of yourself, you are holding at the back of your mind, with a “New Me”
- stop being dependent on the opinions of others about you and seeking the constant validation of yourself and your actions from others
- change your self-talk and fill yourself with positive attitudes
- give up an idea of being perfect to deserve to have what you want
- bring self-respect at the new level
- let go the feeling of self-importance and stop taking yourself too seriously
- start loving yourself as a WHOLE, COMPLETE and PERFECT and allowing yourself to be who you are instead of changing yourself
REQUEST MORE INFO HERE
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A NEW SERVICE “Date a La Cart": which will allow you to take advantage of the best our company has to offer without signing up for a long term contract. No more annual contracts - You only pay per introduction one at a time.
HOW IT WORKS: In order to be prequalified for this service you must have a private interview with a matchmaker who will analyze your needs and desires, carefully evaluate your family background and the history of your past relationships to identify your patterns of behavior. The matchmaker will assess your core personality characteristics and discuss your values and goals to clarify your important emotional and interpersonal needs and desires in order to find your true match. The matchmaker will also learn about your physical appeal and other private personal preferences to define what will be that unique chemistry that leads to a strong lasting relationship.
HOW MUCH DOES IT COST: This is the most requested and also most economical package we offer our clients. Please CONTACT us to request more information about this service.
OUR MATCHMAKING APPROACH IS UNIQUE AND CUSTOM-TAILORED: Our search is NOT based on aggressive marketing schemes, computer matching, video databases, or on-line tests. We recognize that all clients are unique and we use a unique strategy for each individual client when searching for their ideal life partner. We create an action plan of custom-networking, advertising, personal connections, and community outreach. We invest time getting to know you and your potential matches, thereby providing you with the most accurate results.
PSYCHOLOGICAL COMPATIBILITY: Our commitment to finding your perfect match is based on your lifestyle, life goals, personal values and psychological compatibility. We DO NOT find matches based on common interests and hobbies. We believe the relationship is all about how two romantic partners act in life’s prickly situations. It's their ability to create a good "fit", even when their connection doesn't seem seamless, smooth and natural. We encourage our clients to focus less on physical criteria or common interests and more on a potential romantic partner's "relationship skills" or "emotional intelligence".
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JOIN US ON FACEBOOK AND CHECK OUR CURRENT CLIENTS PHOTO ALBUMS
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"BACHELOR 2010" and "BACHELORETTE 2010" albums on SOPHISTICATED MATCHMAKING FACEBOOK FAN PAGE
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VIEW OUR FEATURED MEMBERS OF THE MONTH
FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OTHER MEMBERS CLICK HERE
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Gender - Female
Looking For - Serious relationship
Looking For - Male
Date of Birth - 12-15
Marital Status - Divorced
Do You Have Kids - Yes
How Many Kids - 1
Kids don't live with her
More Children - No
Match With Kids - Yes
Relocation - Might consider relocation
Body Type - Athletic
Height - 5'6"
Weight - 119lbs
Hair Color- Brown
Eye Color - Brown
Ethnic Background - Caucasian
Religion - Spiritual
Education - Some college
Occupation - Artistic/Creative/Performance
FOR MORE PHOTOS OF MISS APRIL CLICK HERE
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Gender - Male
Looking For – Serious Relationship
Looking For - Female
Date Of Birth - 1961
Marital Status - Divorced
Do You Have Kids - Yes
How Many Kids - 2
Kids Don't Live With Him
More Children - Maybe
Match With Kids - Yes
Relocation - Completely Open
Body Type - Athletic
Height - 6'2"
Weight - 188
Hair Color- Brown
Eye Color - Brown
Ethnic Background - Caucasian
Religion - Christian
Education - College
Income - $750,000+
Occupation - Self-Employed/Entrepreneur
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Gender - Female
Looking For - Serious relationships
Looking For - Male
Date of Birth - 1967
Marital Status - Divorced
Do you have kids – 12 years old daughter
Can you match have kids - Yes
Relocation - Willing to relocate
Body Type – Slender/Fit
Your Height – 5’4’’
Hair Color- Black
Eye Color – Dark Brown
Ethnic Background - Chinese
Religion - Spiritual
Masters Degree in Economics - CPA
Occupation – Accountant
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Gender - Male
Looking - Serious Relationship
Looking For - Female
Date of Birth - 04/17
Marital Status - Divorced
Do You Have Kids - No
More Children - Maybe
Match With Kids - Yes
Relocation - Might consider relocation
Body Type - Athletic
Height – 6’4
Weight - 215lbs
Hair Color- Brown
Eye Color - Brown
Ethnic Background - Caucasian
Religion - Christian
Education - BA
Occupation - Sales Manager
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LOVE AND DATING COACHING PACKAGE Sign up for our most popular package "100 Days of Greatness". The cost for the program is $2,500 for a three month intensive coaching camp. Open a door to a happy life full of Love and Happiness! LEARN MORE
WHY OUR MATCHMAKING APPROACH IS UNIQUE Everyone has a pattern to their relationships. What we call chemistry is actually hard wired deep in our subconscious. It determines your relationship choices for the rest of your life. Because of it, you crave specific types of people and situations whether they are good for you or not. You will continue to do this unless you do something to change your hard wiring. You cannot change your wiring by reading a book or by attending a seminar. If you could you would already have exactly the kind of relationships you want. Only methods that imprint on the primal level, that extracts your core fears and interrupts your original wiring can change your relationship patterns. That is what I do the best -help people to consider matches which they would never pick on their own to build a lifelong connection. REQUEST MORE INFO or click HERE to learn more
NEED A SPEAKER? BOOK SOPHIA FOR YOUR NEXT EVENT! Are you looking for a motivational speaker? A keynote speaker? A one-of-a-kind motivational speaker with insight and humor who brings an entire conference to its feet? With interactive exercises, hilarious anecdotes, and the unique ability to connect with both businesses and singles, you've never seen a public speaker like Sophia McDonald. Sophia entertains, educates, and enlightens audiences of all ages. Click HERE to book Sophia for your next event.
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NEW!!! RELATIONSHIP ADVICE HOTLINE
How To Move On With Your Life?
Go From Being Stuck To Being Loved

Are you confused about your relationship? Your partner's behavior? Yourself? Don't know what to do? Don't know how to respond? Don't know how to handle it? Get Relationship Advice over the phone during a one-on-one coaching session. Ask your own question or pick a question from our list and get your answers
Click HERE to learn more and to get started
COST: $150 per one hour

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"I've never found it hard to date, but impossible to find a woman I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I was beginning to think I never would find such a person, and some of my friends thought that I was being too selective. When a friend of mine suggested Sophia as a matchmaker, I first thought "No way. I don't need that!" but then I thought "How could it hurt?" After our first meeting, Sophia had someone in mind for me, who turned out to be unavailable. She then introduced me to a couple other women who were very nice, but not the one for me. Then, after some time, the woman she first thought would be perfect for me became available, we met, and yes, Sophia was right. I am completely taken by this woman; we are a perfect fit for one another. Sophia has the power of great intuition and the true desire to help people find romance. I will always be thankful to her for seeing who would be right for me and introducing me to such a wonderful woman."
~ Male, 55yo, Seattle WA, February 9th, 2012
"So far 2 dates with 2 very fabulous women. Both are open to second dates so trying to line that up to get to know them better. If someone told me you have to make a choice now, I would go with Alex. But too soon to tell. I went on about 9 dates with another dating service and everyone was a painful experience as we had nothing in common. So 2 for 2 out of the gate---I’m really happy I decided to enlist your help.
Thanks Sophia. ~ Male, 43yo, Seattle, WA / December 7th, 2011
Sophia...I voted but you truly dont need my vote. :-) You are great at what you do. Even though you never got round to matching me, I took your advice and have been in an amazing relationship since then. I spoke with you for barely 5 minutes yet you offered very profound statements that have stayed with me to this day and I have shared those words over and over. xoxo ~ Lolade Oyefeso / October 2011
"Dear Sophia, I met my soul mate....we met and married in 3 months, both of us thinking we would never ever be married again. When you know, you know. Best wishes to you." ~Female, Seattle/ WA, September 2011
"I hired Sophia as my match maker and quickly realized she has a unique gift when it came to identifying who could be my ideal match. I have met a wonderful man through her that I would not have met through my own avenues and he fits all the major aspects of what I have been searching for, including great chemistry! In addition I used Sophia's relationship coaching services when I first met her, which truly helped me build my self confidence in the dating world, as well as to be more open minded about the process. I am not only impressed with Sophia's work but incredibly grateful to her!" -- August 2011, Female, 50yo, Seattle
"Sophia, I love this video – You did a magnificent job of touching on all of your areas of specialty, including your unique individualized coaching strategy through the entire dating lifecycle. You absolutely have a gift for successfully providing successful outcomes through your experience and personalized attention to the individuals you work with. I like how you also mention the fact that so much money can be spent on dates that are not a fit – whether the cost be in dollars, time lost on matches that bring no long term potential, or lost opportunities due to repeated behavior patterns that allow dating to end prematurely. There is an absolute savings and success factor that is to be accounted for in working with you. Your honest, personalized, and open approach to communication is magnificent – you drill in to the core issues that allow for an individual to recognize and realign with their desires and attract as well as recognize the best mate. You provide that additional before and after layer that is fundamental to success, and that coaching aspect is so very important, and something that the majority of services out there do not provide. You take the false notion of love being a numbers game, and you put the information for success in your client’s hands by identifying key areas of value, and empowering them toward their greatest potential with a very caring touch. You have a wonderful gift my friend, and Seattle is blessed to have you. You can't put a price on love...but there sure is a cost to lost time and small talk with a host of nonmatches - if we took a spreadsheet to the average annual expenditures of unsuccessful dates - I have no doubt the numbers would add up to far more than the average person realizes over the course of each year!" Lisa Rayanne, 35yo, February 2, 2011 at 9:18pm
"Dear Sophia, I would like to thank you again for speaking to me yesterday and giving me a lift. It will take a little bit of time to heal but one of the best advice was that God had something better planned for me than I originally did. All of your advices were great!! I will definitely try to keep in contact and work on my healthy boundaries. Thanks again Sophia and have a great day! "It takes two to tango, but one to fall" - July, 2010, Male, 25yo, Austin, TX
"He is great! Thank you for asking. He adores me, which is something I haven't experienced since my 1st husband. He came in a package I didn't expect -- but you really helped me see that the things I was looking for in men and what I was attracted to were not making me happy. I would never have met him without your help with my pictures & profile, encouragement to start dating again, and the coaching. So, thank you! :)" - August 2010, Female, 43yo, Seattle, WA
"I have an update on my dating/relationship scene. I think I had mentioned at the first coaching session that the last introduction went well. Since that time about 3 weeks ago, her and I moved like a speeding bullet to major boyfriend/girlfriend status. I mean MAJOR MAJOR bf/gf status. I wanted to say that on our second date I clearly brought up the "what are you looking for" type of filtering/honesty questions - something I never, ever would have done before! Though at the time we weren't exactly on the same page at the beginning of the second date we talked about most everything, and by the end of it we were absolutely crazy for each other, and the date got even better! We both see MAJOR long-term potential (and it seems we're both dancing around the "L" word!). This is not to say my work is done. We have both talked about the very real possibility that the flame will burn strong yet quick, and before we know it things will be over. Until then however, we will enjoy it!" - August, 2010, Male, 35yo, Bellevue, WA
Begin forwarded message:
From: xxxxx@yahoo.com
Date: October 15, 2010 2:10:54 PM PDT
To: SOPHIA MCDONALD <sophia@sophiamcdonald.com>
Subject: Fwd: referral for Sophia McDonald
Hi Joie,
Beautiful name by the way!
Back in September, Sophia mentioned that you had asked for references, and I apologize that between travel and work and children, I've not been as timely in responding as I had hoped to be.
I have known Sophia for about a year now, and my every interaction with her has been absolutely wonderful. Sophia is professional, and maintains confidentiality which is of utmost importance when we are sharing our personal lives with someone. The trust factor is absolutely there, which allowed for me to open up to her. Something else that I really appreciate about Sophia is she used her own life as an example with me at times when there was an alignment, to help me see that these things are not isolated events that only happen to me, but many of us face events and if we manage through them well, then we grow from the situations and are better people as a result. Sometimes it is hard to hear the truth of our own areas of improvement, so when Sophia uses herself as an example, your walls go down, because she is not only taking your story, she is sharing hers...she is humbly relating so that you can feel comfortable in those areas that you can improve on. Granted there are issues that the other people around us may need to change, but as we grow as people, it is not so much a need to focus on others, as it is to focus on ourselves, that is what we are able to really bring change in - and that is how we move our life forward in a blessed and successful way.
Since I started meeting with Sophia, many significant things have changed in my life - all because of the tools she gave me, from how to be more aware of myself and what I attract into my life, to how I respond to situations in life and alternative ways of responding were offered by her - which actually proved very beneficial even though my first reaction was to doubt. Sophia taught me some key points 1. Humility/Humble 2. Authentic 3. Kind rather than right -- at first this made me feel weak, because I"m a very type A, strong woman and for me to change my communication style was not easy, it took me 3 months of being aware daily and in being willing to try it even if it felt odd. I even through through a period where I just felt I was in a void - never was I unhappy, I just felt out of touch with things, everything was vague almost like a dream state where you are not sure you fit.
After those 3 months passed and I kept with everything she had taught me, accepting that I dont have to be perfect, and that the way I calculated perfect to be, may not have been what others saw perfect as being --- the changes started to come through. I now attract very successful, kind, authentic genuine people into my life. I broke away from my employer and started my own company, and I am embracing life with true joy. Instead of hiding the softer sides of who I am, for fear that the fast paced business world would only be interested in seeing my stronger side, and transferring that over to the men I would meet -- all was a falacy - the reality is, the world responds well to our authentic self, even if it means being softer, removing walls, being open, being vulnerable....we attract what we are, and thus the most beautiful parts of life are only seen when we open ourselves with confidence and love to the vulnerability of feeling life and allowing life to see through us and to be ok with our imperfections, most people dont see them anyway, because no one is perfect. Sophia is a true treasure, and she has a wealth of knowledge that absolutely brings results - by now you may have had a couple sessions with her and are aware, and if not, I encourage you to do so. I had about 10+ sessions and I"ll have a couple more - but what I love is that the results are obvious, she doesn't just listen, she provides tools and solutions -- to realize your dreams, to bring out the beauty within you, and to live the best possible life, attracting the most beautiful possibilities.
All the best, L. (Female, 35yo, Seattle WA)
FROM BACHELORETTE #12
Dear Sophia; I just wanted to thank you for your highly intuitive gifts that have united me with someone who is potentially my life partner. When I first came to you with the desire to meet the man of my dreams, I felt in some strange way that you in fact were capable of doing this. I felt this partly because you operate at a different energetic level in looking for potential soul mates but also because you “see” potential everywhere. This is a gift and I see that in you. After just a few meetings with you, I could sense that you felt my “essence” which is important when trying to find a compatible partner. I could feel the universal forces working within you to try and find my match. And you did that very quickly. My first match!!!!!!!!!!!!! I knew instantly that this man was on my life page and we had many karmic overlaps and synchronicities to play out. That has been true and now 1 month later we are growing closer and closer to each other with the hope that we develop a long lasting and enduring relationship filled with happiness. We are both thankful for you Sophia as you have changed both of our lives and made us better people. I hope your gifts can be felt by many others as love is the universal energy and should be shared. It’s the only thing that will make this world a better place. Heartfelt thanks Sophia for your spiritual and intuitive perspective on people and love. ~ SLM, FEMALE, Seattle, June, 2010
"Thank you for the introduction you set up for me. Your experience and insight into people is very keen. The match you arraigned was a good one. I have had several dates with your client and there is good chemistry with us. We have a lot in common and have enjoyed each others company. I would be happy to recommend your services to anyone that is looking for a special person in their lives." Male - 60yo, Bellevue/WA - May, 2009
"Sophia's approach is dead-on and transforms all our soggy paradigms from the past into something that WORKS. She is participating powerfully in my transformation; she’s help me become a noticeably more loving and less ego-driven individual. In the end, Sophia’s approach proves that spiritual evolution of self is the only way to attract the mate you're looking for, and she makes it easy. She’s taught me in just a few hours how simple shifts in my self-awareness and attitudes can change everything for the better. Sophia’s experiential and philosophical approach does so much more than convert “lemons” into “lemonade”; she coaxes out our inner beauty. In my case, it was inner beauty I had never before appreciated in myself. Set free, that newfound joy and beauty is spreading like wildfire across every aspect of my life. I’ll never again approach a woman in the same way; I’ll never view my role in any love affair through the same flawed filter I was given in early life. She proves it is possible to teach old dogs new tricks! I have never before praised any service to this whole-hearted extent. But Sophia is simply extraordinary to work with. I have no conflict of interest in saying this; I only hope she can spread her take on love far and wide. She brilliantly synthesizes the most salient aspects of popular self-help and religions concepts from every corner of human experience, and the results are powerful. In fact, this service is much more than a matchmaking business. It’s really life-coaching on steroids, with a very pleasant side-effect. If you’re open to her guidance, it will bring much better matches and much better relationship skills into your life. Sophia helps solve the universal struggle of every human … the elimination of lovelessness and loneliness in our lives. Bravo Sophisticated Matchmaking!" Roger, Mercer Island/WA - October 8th, 2008
"I cannot thank you enough for your time yesterday. I want you to know that our meeting yesterday changed my life. That may sound melodramatic but that makes it no less true. Through our meeting, I was able to identify exactly what I am looking for in a life partner and now feel better equipped to recognize it when I see it. Moreover, I finally embraced my ultimate goal--to be married and to create a family--and no longer feel as though it's something I ought not admit for fear of what others might think. You gave me some tools I can use to stop wasting my time with all the things that do not look like my life partner and stay focused on my goal. In short, I am energized to pursue love deliberately. I must say, our meeting yesterday was time and money well spent. I would have paid ten times the amount to get the same value you provided to me yesterday alone--that is how impactful it was." Female - 35yo, Bellevue/WA - January, 2010
"From the moment I began talking with Sophia I felt she had a special understanding about me and what I was looking for. By the end of our first session I believe she knew more about me and my dating issues than I did. She has a very special way of making you comfortable and before you know it you are telling her your wants and needs for a relationship and thinking, “Wow, I didn’t realize that trait in a person is so important to me.” Sophia is very accessible, she quickly returns emails and phone calls, is constantly updating me on where we are in the process, what great man she thinks may be match for me, and setting up dates. Her services also include many fun outside events to attend. The “HIT THE TOWN” event that I attended was great time. Sophia invited a select group people whom she believed might make good matches for each other, 6 men and 6 women. The evening started off with a great intellectual discussion about relationships, dating issues, and advice on dealing with them. I found it to be a great way to gain insight on what the opposite sex was thinking and feeling about the dating process and it become obvious very quickly that we all seem to face the same problems. Sophia worked with everyone in a very conversational manner on what might work best for us to get over these hurtles. After a bite to eat, we all moved into the bar for an opportunity to speak one on one with anyone we wished. It was a wonderful time. I believe that Sophia truly cares about her clients and will search to the end of the earth to locate them their perfect match, and this is why I have put my love life in her capable hands." December, 2009 Female - Seattle, WA
"Dear Sophia, I just want to let you know how grateful I am for you to help me this year. I broke up with my boyfriend in February, determined to find the path I wanted to take and had the personal interview with you. That interview helped me so much. In the last month, I met a wonderful man who is a principal of a school. He is 48 years old, a marathon runner. I know I am a bit older than him, but it does not seem to bother him. We have mutual attraction and admiration of each other, truly want to build the relationship of love and kindness. I have never thought I would find someone like him. People say you find someone when you are least looking, and that's exactly what happened to me. We are already thinking of planning trips for next year. I just want to thank you for all you have done for me this year. I truly believe when you have the right frame of mind, you would attract a person with the same. Happy holidays!" December 18th, 2009, Female, - Bellevue, WA
"I just thought I would take a second to let you know that your personal information activities were the most inspiring I have seen here at FB so far! And I have seen MANY!!! Love and Blessings!!!" September 30, 2009 Female - Orange County, CA
"Sophia, you have given me new inspiration on being single and a new hope! Well you have inspired me a great deal and since I have been reading your posts I believe I myself have made a turn in a better direction! So just another personal thank you for your inspiration! You rock!! I thank you so much!!!" November 28th, 2009 Male - Eugene, OR
"My life totally changed in the past month, you have no idea, to the good, to the excellent, and I think your words had some influence in my change, thanks :) I feel so good, I am blessed and happy inside, and it feels great! Hope you had a great Thanksgiving." November 28, 2009 Male – Los Angeles, CA
"Sophia McDonald’s approach to matchmaking is like no other. She believes that great relationships start with self awareness and she skillfully guides you through that process. Sophia has keen intuition and very insightful. She is teaching you in a very inspiring way to melt away hidden tendencies and behaviors that sabotage your relationships. What makes it pleasant working with Sophia is that she has a talent for teaching growth and transformation in a spirit of self-discovery and not blame, judgment or self-reproach. After every session with Sophia I feel enlightened and empowered. Sophia’s coaching already affected all aspects of my life. I was able to enhance my relationships with friends, parents, coworkers and even my neighbor without even trying. It’s like a magic ;-) I know I’ll never approach my next romantic relationship in a way I did before. I can‘t wait to discover what’s going to happen next." Tatyana O., Seattle/WA - October 9th, 2008
"You are one of the most accomplished women I have ever met (and I have met a lot of people). What makes you especially amazing is your gracious generous approach to life. I am sincere when I say you will be "famous". The spirit you embrace business into matchmaking makes a ton of sense to people like me who are very driven at work yet traditional in love. I truly thank you for the time you spent with me today. More than that, I thank you for the hard effort you put into making certain that I do my part. Much like a wonderful BIG sister, you sent me a POA (plan of action) which I greatly appreciate. Like faith without legs, talking about doing something means nothing if not followed with action!' Female - 47yo, Bellevue/WA - December, 2007
"I've always believed that certain people come into your life for a reason, and Sophia was definitely one of those people! I went into our meeting thinking I knew what I wanted and how to get it. After going through my family and personal history and reviewing goals with her my eyes were opened in a big way. She helped me re-evaluate my priorities, see patterns of mistakes and helped me put together an action plan. I now have a better sense of who I am, what I'm looking for, and where I want to be. Spending a few hours with her changed my entire outlook on dating". Female - 33yo, Seattle/WA - January, 2008
“While working with Sophia, I did recognize I was in the presence of amazing... Thanks again for being wonderful. You help me believe that there really are truly special women out there...” Male - 53yo, Olympia/WA - June, 2008
"If you have any issues or confusion about love at all, at least one visit to this group could open your mind to realizations and teach you how to be objective toward yourself in future relationships; well, in everything really!" - Gabríel Rey Morales (Aug 22, 2008)
"The group in attendance was open and willing to share views and listen to others." - Kelly (Aug 21, 2008)
"Your questions will be answered. The insight of a professional matchmaker brings to light many topic that you can further explore on your own." - Arland (Aug 14, 2008)
"It's a different perspective on dating." - Brian (Aug 11, 2008)
"Sophia has a lot of passion for what she does. She is a person that I feel that can improve your life just by being around her and listening to her speak." - Brett (Jul 25, 2008)
"Good to come with a open heart, if you want to get better at dating and relationships" - Jacqueline (Jul 24, 2008)
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By adminsophia on
3/8/2012 2:33 PM
Photo: Annie Brady
By Brad Nehring on February 7, 2011
Sign up with Seattle’s ultra-exclusive personalized matchmaking service -- call Sophia directly at (206) 6830089 or email at sophia@sophiamcdonald.com
Big plans to lavish your significant other with chocolates, flowers and romance on the 14th? No? No problem. Just connect with local certified matchmaker, love and relationship expert Sophia McDonald for some overdue help in that department.
McDonald, 37, has professionally arranged dates since 2007 when she founded her company, Sophisticated Matchmaking — now an established boutique high-end matchmaking company. However, she stresses, setting people up is just one aspect of her work.
“I call it the art of serendipity,” she explained, over coffee at her home office on Mercer Island. “Serendipity is when you are looking for something, but something else comes to you, and to your surprise, you like that second thing more. That’s what people do with me. They increase their chances of serendipity catching them.”
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By adminsophia on
2/9/2012 11:31 PM
"I've never found it hard to date, but impossible to find a woman I would want to spend the rest of my life with. I was beginning to think I never would find such a person, and some of my friends thought that I was being too selective. When a friend of mine suggested Sophia as a matchmaker, I first thought "No way. I don't need that!" but then I thought "How could it hurt?" After our first meeting, Sophia had someone in mind for me, who turned out to be unavailable. She then introduced me to a couple other women who were very nice, but not the one for me. Then, after some time, the woman she first thought would be perfect for me became available, we met, and yes, Sophia was right. I am completely taken by this woman; we are a perfect fit for one another. Sophia has the power of great intuition and the true desire to help people find romance. I will always be thankful to her for seeing who would be right for me and introducing me to such a wonderful woman."
~ Male, 55yo, Seattle WA, February 9th, 2012
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By adminsophia on
12/22/2011 10:51 PM
THIS EMAIL MADE MY HEART MELT - I just received it today from one of my friends whom I have introduced to one of my current single clients:
Sophia,
I want to thank you for being so persistent with Julie. She mentioned to me she was reluctant to meet someone during the Holidays and how you said not to pass up on such a great guy as me, that one meeting could be life changing.
Well that one meeting was life changing for me. I have dated enough to know not to let someone as special as Julie slip through my fingers, so to speak - and to think we almost did not get to meet J
I hope this finds you feeling better (you were fighting a cold last week when we chatted on facebook).
Warmest wishes to you and your son for a wonderful Holiday Season.
Marc
PS: I am thankful to you for staying in touch with me over these past few years and then when the time was right to send me Julie’s information – I have never met someone so genuine, caring, and beautiful.
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By adminsophia on
12/22/2011 10:48 PM
The Law of Paradoxical Intent reflects the Law of Magnetism in warning that you'll only get a return of your own negative energy. If you're desperate to make something happen, that repulsive vibration will push it away, turning away the very people and situations that might bring your desired outcome. Your desperation, therefore, creates the paradox-or the opposite-of your original intention, leading you to failure instead of success.
The Universe wants you to achieve all that you desire, and when you align yourself with the Laws of Success, it will do everything in its power to help you on your way-but desperation and urgency are deal breakers. This isn't because the Universe wants to prolong your yearning. In fact, just the opposite is true: It wants you to enjoy your life and engage in a different, higher vibration now-and stop waiting for some vague happiness to come in the distant future. The best energy happens when you let go of urgency and engage in trust, when you rid yourself of despair and choose peace in the present instead.
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By adminsophia on
12/22/2011 10:37 PM
Feeling the Feelings - grief / emotional energy release
"Emotions are energy that is manifested in our bodies. They exist below the neck. They are not thoughts (although attitudes set up our emotional reactions.) In order to do the emotional healing it is vital to start paying attention to where energy is manifesting in our bodies. Where is there tension, tightness? Could that "indigestion" really be some feelings? Are those "butterflies" in my stomach telling me something emotionally?"
"We are all carrying around repressed pain, terror, shame, and rage energy from our childhoods, whether it was twenty years ago or fifty years ago. We have this grief energy within us even if we came from a relatively healthy family, because this society is emotionally dishonest and dysfunctional."
"Our emotions tell us who we are - our Soul communicates with us through emotional energy vibrations. Truth is an emotional energy vibrational communication from our Soul on the Spiritual Plane to our being/spirit/soul on this physical plane - it is something that we feel in our heart/our gut, something that resonates within us."
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By adminsophia on
12/22/2011 10:20 PM
I recently posted an article from Scott and Shannon Peck on “Dating Mistakes that Block Soulmate Possibilities” where they talk about important things to be aware of while dating. Although I am not personally in the “dating” scene I can really appreciate their “no nonsense” approach. What stood out for me the most was when they talk about not continuing with someone who does not respect you. That is common sense for dating but what about long-term relationships?
How many of us stay in relationships with significant others who disrespect us on a daily basis? When we disrespect ourselves by allowing others to disrespect us we are giving that person the message that they don’t need to show us respect.
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By adminsophia on
11/22/2011 11:00 AM
Love is a feeling.
Love is a behavior.
Love is a choice.
Love is connection.
Love is the juiciest part of life.
Love opens our hearts, expands our world, and brings a smile to our lips.
For love we make commitments and agreements to share our life with another in good times and in bad.
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By adminsophia on
11/4/2011 11:40 AM
The whole idea of dating is to have fun, share meaning, and establish a potentially valuable relationship – and maybe even find your soulmate.
Often, that doesn’t happen. We make dating mistakes.
Most of them are avoidable. Anyone who has ever been on a date quickly recalls their worst dating mistakes. But the mistakes we make can be useful for future dates if we think through what went wrong.
Here are some dating mistakes that can block you from finding your soulmate.
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By adminsophia on
11/1/2011 1:20 PM
I’ve got a lot of theories about dating and relationships.
Whether you agree or not, my theories aren’t based on what I want to be true.
They’re based on the hundreds of women I dated, the thousands of women I’ve coached, and the many books I’ve read about relationships.
Which is not to say that I’m always right, but that when I offer you something, it’s an idea that has some measure of intellectual merit.
The latest theory I have is that there is a huge swath of men who can’t make ANYONE happy in the long run.
Any woman who dates one of these men will have fleeting moments of intense happiness…followed by many more moments of intense pain.
What makes my theory all the more confounding is this:
The men who can’t make ANYONE happy in the long run are very often the most desirable men of all!
That’s right.
It’s like a poisonous flower being the most attractive one.
Sometimes, the most charismatic men are the WORST relationship bets.
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By adminsophia on
10/28/2011 11:28 PM
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